Feeling contemplative this morning as I review my previous weekly encounters with folks that I am helping and building relationships with at my job. I learn so much about myself, love, truth and connection from these people that I am so blessed and honored to interact with. It has been an interesting and unfolding expansive personal experience since I started my job helping folks struggling with homelessness or at least at high risk of becoming homeless. This has brought all sorts of walks of life into my path with not one single perfect “recipe” that got them there. Sure, there are certainly common threads like addiction, poor choices, legal issues and a cocktail of various other circumstances that may have led to their current situation, but some aren’t as cut and dry, black and white as it seems. Some it’s a major string of bad luck, health issues, heart brake and more. Regardless, without exception, they all are suffering.
The thing I see when each of these people step into my office is the person, in the moment, wanting to find their way back “home”. They are searching for a way to improve their current situation in ways they feel will get them back on track with things such as “employment”, “money”, “security”, “housing” and just overall survival beyond just literally trying to stay alive. What some of them end up getting is so much more should they be ready and I be guided and used in such a way to create real change. When this happens I end up getting the opportunity to open and love them unconditionally and not be afraid to do so.
This sort of thing can be a bit tricky because not too many people really understand unconditional love beyond the logical explanation of what unconditional love looks like. Even people with good intentions can get confused by this powerful thing called LOVE. What does it mean? The first unconscious question that eventually interrupts the flow of unconditional love is how can it be labeled so that it can be understood. It often feels a bit scary and uncontrollable even for the individual that logically understands the meaning of unconditional love. Unconditional love is not to be understood by the mind but rather the heart. It requires a deep connection to the greater part of ourselves where labels and separation does not exist. It requires a constant checking in with that part of ourselves to not get lost in the magnitude of the power it holds. It takes focus and dedication and commitment to the highest and most sacred energy behind it to ultimately have it manifest in Divine ways and a healthy and expansive outcome.
I truly believe that the path I have chosen over the years has slowly and inconspicuously led me to be exactly where I am, doing what I am doing. I am constantly checking my ego and inviting my Higher Self to continue to use me to do the work, to love perfectly and create an environment where I can teach those I work with, how to love without expectation, how to be in alignment with their true nature and feel safe being kind and compassionate. How to practice having a loving relationship that is healthy and means nothing more than pure connection. No chance of romance, not even a guarantee of a long lasting friendship, simply a deep loving connection that happens on a equal “playing field” in the “now”. The “playing” field of infinite oneness. What a gift that is being shown to these unsuspecting individuals. What an amazing way for Source/God/”the Law” to show up. What is so cool about it is that the very first thing that takes place is the message they get that THEY are okay. That THEY are important. That THEY are Divine and perfect and the sooner they remember this the faster they can get their life changed around. The message that all they have to do to move forward is, at the very least, accept that the possibility exists that they are important JUST because they exist. Nothing more and nothing less. The rest lies in the power of the unconditional love that will soon follow. Yes, somebody loves them just because. Some stranger, some lady who doesn’t know them from “Adam” loves them. Not because they are told this but because they just know, somehow they just know. There is no warning for me either when this is about to take place, which makes it magical and so out of my capacity to ever plan such an intervention. What a gift I’m given to be witness to this and be used in such a way that I get to be a “circuit” for this blissful and amazing energy and connection of unconditional love to manifest through. These are by far the most intense and pure relationships I get to be a part of and witness. They are miracles!
Some of these lovely Beings that I connect with have either never experienced a healthy relationship or have forgotten what one feels like (likely the first) and often have really not ever experienced safe love. Actually, to be honest, I’m not sure I even know too many people who most would consider to be healthy, that understand what a truly healthy relationship is. Most have unconscious expectations from all their relationships whether they be with family, friends or lovers. There’s an unconscious need, give and take and attachment of some sort. I know because I have those in my own life as well and while I can usually see the underlying attachments, I have them none the less. I must say though that because of my awareness, I have incredible people and relationships in my life. The healthier they have gotten, the more I have been free to love unabashedly (not recklessly), but fully as “myself” and fully communicate clearly about why someone may love me while not even really knowing much about me. I show them how to love themselves, the “truth” about themselves and when I show up vulnerable and authentic it allows them the freedom to do the same. THAT is liberation and freedom. THAT is the reason they come back. Not being defined by their past and by allowing them to show up in this NEW DAY, in this NEW MOMENT and choose something different without judgement, allows the freedom to start feeling okay again and to explore this new world of being in alignment with who they truly are, which is Divine perfection and then work from that place out verses trying to fix everything from the outside in. This is so powerful!
I get to literally love unconditionally with those who allow and respond to it. For those who aren’t sure why and are drawn to something that feels so right but so out of the norm, for those who are willing to explore and follow the newly found natural high that heals the addictions, that heals the self disgust, that heals the feeling of powerlessness into something powerfully creative. They follow, though not completely understanding why, other than to know that it feels right. They begin to understand that it is not a relationship that can easily be labeled or described without the risk of cheapening it. They follow because there is something so much greater than the “relationship” taking place. Something so powerful, it literally reaches into the depths of their Soul through the crack that has been opened by this love, by this interaction.
There needs NOT to be a plan with these encounters as they will evolve in the most perfect way. The connection that is formed is permanent and powerful and there is no need on a physical level to access it at all. The “Oneness” that is solidified by these connections will forever, infinitely remain in tact and will be felt on ALL levels of experience, whenever and wherever needed. Even in the perceived separation of this human experience. There will always be a subtle or maybe not so subtle knowing of oneness between me and them. Our Souls have a contract that needed to be tended to in their own unique way. My heart feels so full as I write this though I’m not sure these words will ever convey the beauty. I am deeply grateful for being chosen for such a transaction. I’m not sure why exactly but I surrender to the fact that I don’t really need to know and I no longer question it.
Trust me when I say this has nothing to do with me, you know…the physical “me”, other than being a willing pawn/participant in the plan of Infinite Divine Love. Call it God, Buddha, Alla, Bubba…call “It” whatever you want, whatever feels comfortable. It’s UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and it is completely intoxicating. It is truly the new high of the coming age. It is the shift and the evolution of the “ALL”. It’s “Source” evolving and experiencing Itself through humanity. It’s friggen amazing is what “IT” is!!
Told ya, it’s definitely my “new high”. It just keeps getting better the more I surrender to “It”, trust “It” and honor “It” in such a pure and authentic way. It keeps getting better the more I understand how to just BE It”.
The term clairvoyance (from French clair meaning “clear” and voyance meaning “vision”) is used to refer to the ability to gain information about an object, person, location or physical event through means other than the known human senses, a form of extra-sensory perception. A person said to have the ability of clairvoyance is referred to as a clairvoyant (“one who sees clearly”). (Source: wikipedia)
Is any one of us equipped with the ability to “see” more clearly than another? Do you somehow feel you got “jipped” on the special ingredient when moving down the assembly line? Though it may feel like that, I highly doubt it. That’s not to say that some people just remember at some level better than others. For those that possess this tool, this ability, it’s likely the conditional programming of life and society somehow either nurtured this “knowing” or most likely pushed them so far the other direction that a forced willingness to just try to make sense of something… anything…. and created an opening to allow a deepening within to happen. A “remembrance” of sorts. I had the most fascinating conversation with a truly connected Clairvoyant that leaves me no doubt in the power of the “unseen” and the “unknown”. We have started out with this initial interview to give a glimpse into Clairvoyance and it’s meaning and hope to continue on with topics that I think a lot of people ARE curious about and would like to know and understand more about. Perhaps in depth discussions on all of the chakras and their meaning as well as Auras and the like to create an opening opportunity to those who wish to connect even deeper!
Check out the interview! Gotta love “ClearBlueJeff”! (www.clearbluejeff.com)
I’m here to tell you that you are not alone and there are many things that you can learn to change all of that… IMMEDIATELY. My passion is in helping and supporting women in finding “their way back” to who they truly are and finding that peace and ease they are missing and longing for in their lives.
If you can relate to the brief paragraph above – you might want to keep reading…
Do you ever wonder why you feel compelled to “seek” the next thing that might “trigger” the kind of change you are looking for? Do you find yourself judging others who are not on the same “Spiritual Quest” that you may be on and wonder, how they could be so asleep, even when you are still “seeking” yourself?
What is it exactly, that drives that curiosity, that inner knowing of some miraculous answer to discovering your “perfect” life; and like a magnet, you are being drawn to investigate and journey towards that elusive peace that you may seem to know exists, but isn’t entirely yours in this moment.
While there is no “proof” of anything, do you feed off the experiences of others who seem to know more than you about this “place”, this “space of being”, this enlightened view of the “truth”?
This is an amazing affirmative prayer (I came across on YouTube) created with the Science of Mind Philosophy energy. I find it to be uplifting and empowering and most definitely wanted to share. Close your eyes, open your heart and hear deeply. With loving intention – enjoy! ~ Linda
The only reason you feel you have to try so hard is because you don’t really believe you are complete and perfect at your very core. If you trusted that you are complete with every ounce of your being, life would unfold in the most amazing way!
Don’t get down on yourself. We are all on the path and the journey towards being complete. A never ending and infinite journey as our perfection is endless. Just enjoy the journey and hold the space for the feeling of being complete to exist!
Love and Blessings and of course, a complete knowing of your goodness!
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So there is a lot of teachings going on in the “Spiritual”/”Metaphysical” niche that talks a lot about the importance of Gratitude. I’m here to tell you that Gratitude truly IS a key component to any Spiritual awakening. Speaking from personal experience I have taken this “key” and used it until I’m practically blue in the face, just knowing that if I can be grateful enough for all that I’ve got, that more will come.
Sound familiar? And are you getting the results you’ve been hoping for by becoming more aware of the things in your life to be grateful for? What I have found is that the REASON for your gratitude is the bigger more powerful engine that creates and manifests rather than the act of Gratitude itself.
You ever feel like things just don’t seem so easy for you and everyone else has it all figured out? Well don’t feel alone! I think we all have experienced this and though it may seem like others seem to float effortlessly through life, here’s a little secret…..they are all human too and don’t get excused from this little thing we call LIFE. We all come in these beautiful human packages meant to experience all that we have, are, and will experience in this life.
Don’t be silly enough to think you are alone. We are all in this together! If you are reading this, you are most likely privileged enough
Do you ever feel like a “chicken with your head cut off”. (Geezo! I never really thought about how gross that expression is until just now!) I’m going to get diverted here because this brings up an important message that’s worth talking about, so I’m going to head that direction!
How often do you say things out of sheer habit and conditioning that you don’t even think about? Have you ever used the expression “killing two birds with one stone”! Think about how negative both of those sayings are. Even when you don’t intend any harm or intend negative energy to come from it, the Universe isn’t judgmental and will take whatever you say and think and give it to you. It doesn’t judge whether it’s “good” or “bad”. So an elevated awareness of your habitual language and thoughts, will work a lot better with The LAW of Attraction and your life experiences will improve!
Pay attention to your language. You may notice yourself saying things like “I’m so stupid”, “I can’t afford to…”, “I look like crap today” and so on.
It’s weird how it works. What is trust really? We can understand the definition of trust but do we really get it? It’s never the easiest thing to trust that what I want and what I allow Spirit to handle for me, will be so. I preach it all day long in my life, relationships and coaching. I convince myself that I believe it, but that little voice inside my head just keeps bringing up all my deeply ingrained beliefs about “how it REALLY” is. Just like that my trust goes out the window! Like the idea that you can’t just sit on a couch and expect things to show up OR nothing really good comes easy. Sound familiar?
Okay…. I’m feeling rather feisty today and am ready to “take the bull by the horns” and challenge all of you, my beloved sisters and brothers, whether or not you are ready to ask yourself a few very important questions: Where are you now, relative to where you were a year ago and where it is you REALLY want to be? Are your relationships leaving you feeling filled up or depleted?
Since I focus primarily on relationships and spirituality or spiritualism in my coaching, lets just use this topic for an example. Are you still complaining and suffering in your relationship, the same as you were a year ago?
It never ceases to amaze me how often I get reminded, by unseen turn of events, different anticipated outcomes and often times, just flat out struggle, that I’m really not the one in charge here! I attempt to “map” out my road ahead when I set out to accomplish something and time and time again, have a feeling of frustration when things just don’t ever seem to go as easy as I think they should. When all I need to be doing is letting go!
Feeling good is so important in manifesting beautiful things in our lives. There is a key component to “feeling good” that triggers the manifestations you are truly looking for. Listen in to find out HOW to “fine tune” this simple act of “co-creation” AND feeling good in your life!