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Excuse is Legit! Leave me alone!

Posted by on Dec 26, 2010 in General, Happiness, Relationships, Self Help, Spirituality

WHERE’D CHRISTMAS GO???

So the Christmas season has come to an end.  The building energy of being able to see your intentions of “giving” have come to fruition, the gifts opened and the wrapping paper has be crumpled and thrown away.  The family gatherings have come and gone and we are now left to “getting back” to the daily grind.

NOW WHAT??

It can feel like somewhat of a let down.  I know it does for me.  I love the anticipation of spending time with family and relaxing.  Having a “legitimate excuse” for not accomplishing something…. anything!  Feeling okay about giving in to that extra cookie or home cooked meal specially prepared by “Mom”.

NOBODY ELSE IS WORKING!

I don’t often let myself off the hook very easily and Christmas is a time that I actually find it easier to do so because nobody else is working or accomplishing, and because, thank goodness, everything is pretty much shut down on Christmas.

I’M SUCH A “SLACKER”!

Are you guilty of being hard on yourself too?  Always thinking that everybody else is accomplishing more than you (no matter how exhausted you feel at the end of the day)?  Why is it that we all seem to compare ourselves and assume that we are the “slackers”  and that everybody else seems to have this game called “Life” down to a science??

HA HA – YOU’RE WORSE THAN ME!!

Don’t you think that is why we are so ready to condemn and judge someone else that we see, who is not “towing the mark” in some area in the way WE think is important?  In our sub-conscious mind, it so great to see someone else that might be even worse then ourselves!  Woo Hoo!  Hallelujah!  I’m not the BIGGEST Slacker!  There’s someone worse than me!

LETS COMPARE! IT WILL MAKE ME FEEL BETTER!

We especially tend to be very critical in our closest relationships when it comes to having an opinion about the level of accomplishments taking place.  I talk about this in detail in the CD I just released called “Relationship Wealth Inversion”.  It’s about couples that are thinking about partnering up and working together to build wealth.  It can be interpreted for any relationship though and what I’m referring to is always thinking and comparing who’s doing more and who works the hardest.

SAY IT’S NOT SO!!!  IT’S GOTTA BE ABOUT YOU!

Anyway, just a reminder to be aware of the fact that your judgement towards yourself and others is always about you.  It’s your compass to guide you towards healing that part of yourself that always seems to scream “Slacker”!! at you.  Go into the New Year full of forgiveness for yourself and step into your Power, rather than always trying to prove that you’ve got it, and the forgiveness towards others will come more  naturally.

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May your New Year be blessed and full of amazing experiences and enormous expressions of Unconditional Love towards yourself and others!

Namaste!

Linda

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