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ARE YOU TERRIFIED BECAUSE DIVORCE MAY BE LOOMING IN YOUR FUTURE?

Posted by on Jan 26, 2011 in General, Happiness, Relationships, Self Help, Spirituality

IT’S ALL TOO COMMON

Just even the idea of divorce or separation from a long term or even high intensity, short term relationship is one of the most terrifying feelings a person can go through.  I know because I’ve been there.  In fact, in a way, it was super difficult because I actually loved my husband very much but had embarked on a journey that changed who I “thought” I was and and the “role” I played in the relationship.  I unfolded into someone that didn’t fit into the relationship dynamics anymore.  No matter how hard I tried to fit back into the place I had held in the relationship, I came to understand that I would truly be unhappy and have to surrender to the “old” me and the “old” behaviors that kept me from deeply knowing myself and living my life on purpose.

OOPS, SORRY BOUT’ THAT….I ONLY THOUGHT I WAS THAT PERSON

Have you ever been in this situation?  OR Are you in this situation?  More often than not when women go through life, performing all the required “titles” that life requires of her,  it’s very common for women to become so disconnected with who they are and what they want.  There’s a feeling of being stuck, unhappy and an overall feeling of resentment.  This often plays out, if not externally, for sure energetically and can cause huge disruptions in the marriage or relationship to the point of wanted or needing to get out.

WANT TO BE BITTER? OR IF I TOLD YOU THERE’S A BETTER WAY WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED?

There are so many emotions that run our thoughts and our unconscious behaviors that it’s really hard to sort it all out in a way that it can be done in a place of love.  Instead there’s fighting, finger pointing and defending to the absolute break down of the emotional stability of both the people in the relationship.   It can feel so frustrating and exhausting to defend your “right” to feel the way you’re feeling.  After all, you don’t want to be a “doormat” right?

SO YOU WANT TO KNOW THE KEY?

Obviously, there’s no way in a quick blog that I can fully explain how to emerge from this “sinking ship” with love in your heart instead of hate.   There’s no quick way to helping you understand how you can start to feel more in alignment with who you truly are than you ever have before.  I can tell you that there is absolutely a way to process your experience by either creating a shift in the struggling relationship or coming to peace with lovingly letting it go.  I’ll give you 3 Keys that are of utmost importance:

Key #1 – IT’S AN INSIDE JOB – This shift starts with you and doesn’t require your partners cooperation.

Key #2 – DON’T DO IT ALONE – Find help.  Find a Life/Relationship coach.  Preferably someone who has experienced it.

Key #3 – ACCEPTING THAT WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW ISN’T WORKING AND OPEN TO KNEW IDEAS TO CREATE THE CHANGE YOU’RE LOOKING FOR

If you are tired of feeling sad and lonely in your relationship,  if you feel like you are stuck and don’t know how to help yourself and if you’re worried about feeling selfish for wanting to feel better – I know I can help you.    I’m starting a 5 week long group class called “You Are the Key”.  It begins the week of Feb. 14th (exact day and time to be determined) and I’m only accepting a limited number of women into the group.

Truly it my mission to help a lot of suffering Ladies out there and make it financially possible for them to get started creating change in their lives so that they can create change in  their relationships.

IF YOU’RE INTERESTED – GO TO THE CONTACT LINDA TAB AND GIVE ME YOUR INFORMATION.  SOMEONE WILL BE CONTACTING YOU TO GET YOU SIGNED UP.

This is an excellent way to get over $1000 worth of coaching for $397.  A $200 deposit is required to reserve your spot.

Whether you decide to do this or not, please know you are so very important and you have your own unique purpose here in this life.  Don’t waste your gift of life by feeling sad.  It’s your “birthright” to have all that you desire and live in peace and happiness.  Do no surrender to ANYTHING less!

So much love and light to you!

Linda

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